Kaguya-sama: Love Is War: Miko Iino (ESTJ)
Te:
โYour days of playing dirty are numbered because Iโm going to straighten you out myself! โฆSo, weโll join forces and bring order back to the halls of this school!โ
โYou know, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. I donโt care if youโre a stickler for the rules or what. You need to grasp the concept that the people youโre cracking down on have feelings too. You should try being more empatheticโฆโ โ Ishigami about Miko Iino
Miko Iino values order and structure. She fears that the schoolโs morality is on the decline, and focuses all of her efforts on fixing this. In the process, Miko Iino becomes overbearing and demanding, often taking it upon her self to enforce the rules of the school or call out bad behavior. This leads to being extremely blunt and direct with others. As a result, people like, for instance, Ishigami, view her as an authoritarian and extremely annoying.
Miko works within the current school system to achieve her goal of bringing order back to the school. For instance, she joins school committeeโs like the disciplinary committee and public moralโs committee. In addition, she runs for president in spite of her young age. Her plans for being president primarily involved imposing numerous new regulations and restrictions in order to bring back order. Her speech centers around reforming the schoolโs image to fix its declining reputation.
Miko is disciplined and determined. Sheโs believes in doing whatโs right rather than whatโs fun. Therefore, she works tirelessly, between keeping her grades up, and keeping up with duties. During the festival in season 3, she never actually gets to enjoy the bonfire that she helped plan, because she spends the entire time patrolling the grounds. In addition, she rebukes Shirogane, during the presidential elections, for becoming complacent.
Miko admires people for their external accomplishments, which is why she strives so hard to keep her own grades up and to achieve her goals. Her focus on accomplishments is abundantly clear right from her first appearance on the show. When Shirogane and Ishimigami scoff at her for requesting Chika to be her vice president, Miko immediately begins listing off all of Chikaโs accomplishments.
Si:
โI had expectations of what it would be like. I could picture it so vividly in my mind.โ
Miko has high expectations and very specific ideas of how things should be. Sheโs always dreamed of being on the school council, and thus forms a very vivid image in her mind of what it should be like. Unfortunately, once she gets on the council, Miko quickly gets exposed to the unusual or wild antics. She ends up deeply disappointed with the state of the council, wanting to just give up and quit. This is a classic Si struggle โ forming high internal expectations which reality fails to live up to. Of course, her form of doing this specifically points to high Si, because although her standards are high, her expectations arenโt unrealistic.
When running for president, Miko advocates for numerous new regulations, which are hyper-specific and extremely strict. She believes that more rules will encourage good behavior. Some of these rules, which she lists on her flyer and readily recites to others, include restrictions on romance, all boys having shaved heads, no cell phones, weekly bag checks, etc. Similarly, when Miko declares that Kaguya and Shirogane will serve on her council, she begins listing of very specific duties and regulations, such as a uniform check every morning, trash duty after school, no touching, no romance, and they must be at least 50 centimeters apart at all times.
Ne:
โMiko tends to let her imagination run rampant, and because she mixes fact with fiction, she often jumps to the wrong conclusions.โ
The most obvious way that Mikoโs Ne manifests is through the odd conclusions that she leaps to, conclusions which she believes wholeheartedly. Miko is prone to paranoia, and letting her imagination run rampant. She notices strange behavior among the council members, and then jumps to wild and unrealistic conclusions, one after another, about what is secretly going on.
For example, she initially believes Shirogane to be a man whore, due to a misunderstanding. As the show progresses, she happens upon multiple, odd situations. Naturally, she interprets all of these in a way that supports that initial bad assumption. Once her friend rationalizes away her first assumption, Miko instantly jumps to another false conclusion, this time with the focus on Kaguya. She then acts on that assumption, by confronting Kaguya and asking her a very pointed question.
Fi:
โI refuse to back down on my ideals! With time, people will come to understand them the same way I do.โ
โSheโll snap back at me like a yappy little dog with something to prove if I do.โ โ Yu Ishigami
Miko is actually in touch with her inferior Fi, when it comes to knowing her ideals. She stays true to her convictions, no matter what anyone thinks, and respects those who do the same. With her ideals as her guide, Miko strives to improve the school. In addition, she dreams of being the small girl with big ideals who reforms the student council. However, while she highly opposes degeneracy, she fails to identify her own. By extension, she projects her own degenerate thoughts upon others, assuming the situations she stumbles upon have a lewd context. This failure to realize her own depravity while harshly judging others for that perceived sin is another example of inferior Fi at play. ย Her Fi also surfaces in the way she idealizes Chika, resulting in a willingness to listen to everything she says.
However, her Fi specifically appears to be inferior due to her constant need to prove herself and her worth via external means, like grades. (For instance, someone makes about how being top of the class validates Mikoโs existence.) This is partly why sheโs so incredibly hardworking and vocal. However, on the flip side, itโs also why sheโs quick to get defensive or feel threatened by others. As a result, she often overreacts and snaps back in an unnecessarily harsh way.
Lastly, Miko is detached from emotions in general, resulting in her insensitive nature. Ishigami tries to tell her to be more sensitive, but sheโs only willing to listen to Chika on the matter.
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Ah yes, the character Iโve been waiting for. *cackles in excitement and pent-up annoyance*
Anyway, possible ESTJ here, and I saw myself in a lot of this. ๐ญ๐๐คฆโโ๏ธ๐ Iโll save yโall the ramble and skip straight to my questions. (Youโre welcome).
Questions:
1. You said Miko was in touch with her inferior Fi. Wouldnโt being in touch with inferior Fi mean someone is more empathetic?
My trial expired before I could finish it LMAO but I figured that being in touch with the feeling function = more sensitive to others. Fi is sensitive to others through empathy, and Fe is sensitive by observing + adopting those feelings.
But I remember you guys saying Miko becomes less annoyingly uptight later down the series (or something like that), so thatโs nice to know. Oddly enough, I didnโt find her to be blunt at all. ๐ค Drove me up the wall with irritation with her know-it-all attitude and stubborn arrogance, but other than that? ๐ค๐คทโโ๏ธ I found her to be quite โawwโ at times, especially when she came in to feed the fish. ๐ฅฐ๐
2. Branching off question 1, would *appearing* empathetic or whatever be an extraverted judging thing, then? (Iโd say yes based on my own experience). Je = image or managing othersโ perceptions of us, Ji = the self, personal convictions, who we are when we think weโre alone
3. To Mara: Before the server was deleted, I remembered you thought that we might get worked up over stupid versions of our type. Whatโs your consensus on that now? (Because mannn, I found myself SO annoyed and irritated by Miko LMAO ๐).
4. โThis is a classic Si struggle โ forming high internal expectations which reality fails to live up to. Of course, her form of doing this specifically points to high Si, because although her standards are high, her expectations arenโt unrealistic.โ
Reading this section reminded me of the Fi idealism and why FPs can end up being disappointed when reality doesnโt reach their ideals.
So the Si = realistic expectations, and Fi = the idealism? I interpret her Fi as her saying, โIf everyone just followed the rules, there wouldnโt be any bad people. And my parents wouldnโt have to be dealing with themโ (or something like that).
How would Si + Fi idealism and internal standards differ from Si + Ti/Fe standards? I assume Fe/Ti idealism is more about creating something to create social harmony, while Te/Fi is moreso to create inner satisfaction/harmony within the Fi user?
Am I overthinking this? Probably.
5. โThis failure to realize her own depravity while harshly judging others for that perceived sin is another example of inferior Fi at play.โ
Hmm, so is projection a possible indicator of inferior Fi/ inferior Ji, huh? ๐ค Interestingโฆ โ
Thanks for this blog series, and for getting me into anime ๐ Hoping to see more of this in the future!
Thanksss!
Ping ๐
Hey ping! Bummer that your trial expired. :/ Ryan and I alternate streaming subscriptions periodically, so we can jump around to different shows we want to watch without having to pay for more than one at a time, lol.
1. Being in touch with inferior Fi can mean multiple things. Like you said, it could mean the person is more empathetic. It could also mean that theyโre in touch with their values or sense of self. I guess, to be more specific, Miko Iino was in touch with an aspect of her inferior Fi.
2. Typically, appearing empathetic pulls in the feeling function in to some degree. Many EXTJs donโt feel the need to appear that way because their feeling function is inferior. However, I donโt expect that itโs impossible for a EXTJ to appear that way even if theyโre not, since Je can be quite good at managing othersโ perceptions.
3. I still hold to this, lol. It can be like looking at a past version of yourself, wishing you hadnโt done all those stupid or embarrassing things, and wanting to beat some sense into yourself, lol.
4. They can be similar, but Fe is usually focusing on achieving a perfect, emotionally-supportive family-like environment in which they can belong. Everyone being emotionally in sync and such.
5. Projection usually ties into low self-awareness, which is a common struggle for inferior Ji users. With that being said, theyโre not the only ones who ever project.
I hope that answers all of your questions! I could certainly recommend other series to you, if you ever want to dive deeper into anime. ๐ Like Spy X Family. ๐
Hey Mara!
Thanks for answering my questions! (Sorry, something glitched over here, so my comment disappeared after I sent myself a reply ๐๐ and I was too lazy to retype and send it).
LOL ๐๐ Ooo, Iโll check โem out. ๐๐ Thanks for the recommendation!
Thanks,
Ping ๐
Speaking of expectations and idealism that Si and Fi users have, I think an article to dissect the differences between those are needed to identify that someone is an SJ or an NP since those words have similar meaning but have subtle differences.
Interesting idea. Thanks!